This is another of my essays I wrote when I studied Pride and Prejudice last year which I have adapted, a little, into a blog post about Darcy and Collins's proposals.
‘It is a truth universally acknowledged that a single man in
possession of good fortune must be in want of a wife’ - one of the most famous
openings to one of the most famous novels of all time. It is referring
to one the major themes in pride and prejudice – marriage, and the importance of it! This theme is the cause of a lot of the events which take place throughout
the novel. Two of the major events which are a result of this theme would have to be Mr Darcy's (first) and Mr Collins's proposals!
Both proposals are quite similar. Both the addressers assume
Lizzy is going to accept. Collins is
Lizzy’s cousin and Mr. Bennet’s estate, where she lives, is entailed to
Collins which is one of the main reasons, if not THE main reason (but the Lady Catherine reason he also put rather high on his lists of reasons!), why he
assumes she’ll accept him and why he asks her in the first place - he does know how to flatter the ladies! He believes that because marrying him will
keep the estate in the family, and therefore helping the rest of Lizzy's
family, this should be reason enough for her to accept him and “impossible” to not
agree, especially as is would secure a safe future for her and her family, so why would she refuse?
Darcy’s proposal is similar in that he talks
about how advantageous a marriage between them would be and not only for Lizzy herself,
but again for her family. He explains how
the connections he has will be very beneficial to her family, which he
doesn't hesitate to conceal what he thinks of their low status and poor connections! He also adds how his wealth will be of great
help to her as he knows she is never to inherit a large fortune, which maybe wasn't the best way to phrase it ;) Collins also talks about money as he says
that marrying him will provide sufficiently well enough for them as he also knows how she will
not be entitled to much on her father’s death. In this way, both Collins and Darcy are very
(I don't like to say this but at this point it is true >.<) arrogant and confident in assuming her acceptance and they also both talk about
the advantages to her family which, in their opinions, make it seem too good an
opportunity to miss, and everyone is pining over Darcy aren't they? Well Darcy thought so!
They pretty much place the advantages to her family over the advantages to her, and neither of them consult Lizzy’s own feelings and think about what she wants, and her own happiness!
The 'form' of Darcy’s proposal to Lizzy is very
different, even though the underlying assumption is nearly the same as in Collins. Darcy’s feelings for Elizabeth are very
real and genuine, whereas Collins doesn’t feel for Lizzy at all - no one can disagree with me on that point! Darcy, instead of beginning his proposal by
stating his reasons for marriage (does that ring a bell?), he immediately tells Lizzy that he is in love
with her and then continues onto the advantages of the match and
making it clear that him marrying her is a big sacrifice on his part, what with her
small fortune and low connections and all! What a sacrifice on his part... Collins, on the other hand, launches straight into why he wants (and needs!) to
get married and why, in particular, he has picked such a wife from among the
Bennet daughters! (Luckily he doesn't quite go as far to mention how Jane was actually his first choice...)
The proposals are also very similar because, because of their
arrogance, they don’t particularly flatter her; her beauty or her intelligence or... her at all! Darcy says that he didn’t want to hide his struggles and flatter her
because “disguise is in every way my abhorrence” and Collins doesn’t mention
any particular reason why he has chosen Lizzy, just told her the general
reason for marriage and why he picked one from the Longbourne household - great reasons! Collins is quite rude to Lizzy, perhaps
unintentionally (perhaps not...), when he says “it is by no means certain that another offer of
marriage may ever be made you” and when he talks about needed a “useful wife”
who is “not brought up to highly”! Darcy
is also insulting towards her family and in regards to Jane as Bingley as he
rejoices in his success of splitting them up! (That was not the right road to go down ;) )
A difference though, is that Lizzy did have some idea of Collins
intention to marry her before he actually proposed whereas she had no idea with
Darcy as she believed that he disliked her as much as she did him! Also, Collins never says to Lizzy that he
loves her (as he doesn’t!) whereas Darcy does; “how much I admire and love
you.” Lizzy is not worried about
refusing Collins and doesn’t feel guilty when refusing him, whereas to start
with she is worried about the pain she would cause in refusing Darcy - until he
insults her and then that feeling of guilty is quickly removed! Also, Darcy wants Lizzy to marry him
because he does truly loves her so it is what HE wants, not Lady Catherine (Lady Catherine definitely doesn't want Darcy to marry Lizzy!), but one of Collins main
objectives is to please Lady Catherine, not himself, or even Lizzy!
It is again made clear that Darcy feels for Lizzy and
Collins doesn’t as before Darcy proposed he “sat down for a few moments and
then getting up walked about the room” in an “agitated manner” because he is
very nervous about proposing to her as he really loves her (which I find so sweet!), on the other hand
Collins seems very relaxed and not nervous at all when he proposes to Lizzy and he pretty much just launched straight into it!
Lizzy, to both proposals, rejects immediately. Collins, to start with, will not accept
her refusal because he believes “it is usual with young ladies to reject the
addresses of the man whom they secretly mean to accept, when he first applies
for their favour; and that sometimes the refusal is repeated a second or even a
third time.” (I didn't know that was the normal for young ladies?) Darcy accepts that she has
said no, (just about!), but wishes to know why. So
therefore, after her rejection, neither proposers leave straightaway after being
rejected.
Collins explains how he is
sure they will be married before long, not taking no for an answer, and Darcy
wants to know why he is rejected; “I might, perhaps, wish to be informed
why, with so little endeavour at civility, I am thus rejected”. However, Lizzy is much more rude and
insulting in rejecting Darcy than Collins as, although she says it would be
“impossible” for her to accept Collins and soon after walks out on him (which is so funny and Lizzy was also enjoying this refusal!), with
Darcy she insults his character very powerfully when she says (one of my favourite ever lines!) "From the
very beginning, from the first moment I may almost say, of my acquaintance with
you, your manners, impressing me with the fullest belief of your arrogance,
your conceit, and your selfish disdain of the feelings of others, were such as
to form that ground-work of disapprobation, on which succeeding events have
built so immovable a dislike; and I had not known you a month before I felt
that you were the last man in the world whom I could ever be prevailed on to
marry." (What a put down, but this was definitely not as enjoyable for her as it was refusing Collins!) On hearing this Darcy
leaves Lizzy, whereas Lizzy leaves Collins.
When Darcy has left, “she knew not how to support herself, and from
actual weakness sat down and cried for half an hour,” as Lizzy has been much more affected
by the manner of Darcy’s proposal than by Collins’s, even though she was upset
by Collin’s a little (but I think she was more entertained!), not nearly as much in comparison.
Another
similarity is that before both proposals, Lizzy dislikes both men. Her opinion of Collins doesn’t change after
the proposal (I wonder why?), whereas after Darcy's proposal it does and Darcy begins to improve
in her estimation as she finds out some of the reasons that she held against
him and therefore contributing to her choice of refusing him, turned out to be
false - that letter is so important!
I think that Austen makes you more sympathetic
towards Darcy, as he does love Lizzy and she refuses him in a pretty harsh way! Collins however, she makes you laugh at Lizzy's refusal! You don't feel sorry
for Collins at all because he isn’t in love with Lizzy and Austen has
portrayed Collins as a laughable and pompous character earlier in the novel, making
the reader more likely pleased (and entertained) than upset when he is rejected!
Unlike Darcy, Collins just wants a “useful
wife.” At the beginning of Pride and Prejudice, Austen describes Darcy as an
incredibly proud man. She makes you take Lizzy’s view and therefore dislike him, but after the proposal, you might (and should a little) feel sorry for Darcy because Lizzy was so harsh!
Austen makes Collins seem equally as undesirable
and arrogant as she does Darcy but your opinion of Darcy will is likely
to change (again, it should!) after his proposal compared to Collins. Your opinion of
Collins after his proposal won't as he is such a comic character! Lizzy can do much better and will be better of without him! Not to mention the fact that he shortly after proposes to Charlotte
Lucas, proving he never felt for Lizzie in the slightest, which couldn't have been any more obvious anyway!
An interesting point I think is that Austen contrasts the style of both
proposals. Darcy’s proposal and the conversation between them consists of many
short sentences; Darcy is finding the whole experience difficult (bless!) and the conversation
is very tense and quickly moving backward and forward between them! Whereas
Collins uses long, boring sentences (reflecting his character ;) )
In addition, Austen builds up the reader to be expecting both these
refusals. Collins is such a silly man
and you know Lizzy dislikes him, a lot, and they also know that Lizzy’s view
on marrying for love is very important to her and she is known to be very
strong willed so not likely to drop her opinion and sacrifice her chance of
happiness easily! Darcy has at this point in the novel been shown to be proud and disagreeable, and again, you know Lizzy
does not like him at all and as we see everything from Lizzy's point
of view, we will therefore dislike him as well, especially with regards to Jane and
Bingley and Wickham’s 'tragic' past (*rolls eyes!* but then we are likely to believe this story to be true as at this point
Lizzy believes it and likes Wickham, so we are likely to as well!) Therefore, you would be glad that
Lizzy doesn’t accept Collins or Darcy, but are more likely to be upset that she
doesn’t accept Darcy’s offer of marriage because they know it was genuine. But, I am sure most people (woman at least!) would understand (and
agree!) with Lizzy’s reason for rejecting him - every girl wants a romantic proposal, Darcy's second proposal springs to mind ;)
Despite his selfishness and pride Darcy really does love
Lizzy, whereas Collins definitely does not! But, he made the fatal error, just like Collins, of assuming that Lizzy would marry anyone if it offered her security,
money and comfort and was also very advantageous for not only her, but her
family as well. It proves that Lizzy does not agree with the ‘rule’ of marrying as quickly as possible to secure a
good future without consulting her own feelings in the matter, again making
Lizzy very different to how woman were expected to act and behave during the regency
period, and making her such a strong (and my favourite) heroine!
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Hello my loyal readers! 
Both proposals are quite similar. Both the addressers assume
Lizzy is going to accept. Collins is
Lizzy’s cousin and Mr. Bennet’s estate, where she lives, is entailed to
Collins which is one of the main reasons, if not THE main reason (but the Lady Catherine reason he also put rather high on his lists of reasons!), why he
assumes she’ll accept him and why he asks her in the first place - he does know how to flatter the ladies! He believes that because marrying him will
keep the estate in the family, and therefore helping the rest of Lizzy's
family, this should be reason enough for her to accept him and “impossible” to not
agree, especially as is would secure a safe future for her and her family, so why would she refuse?
The 'form' of Darcy’s proposal to Lizzy is very
different, even though the underlying assumption is nearly the same as in Collins. Darcy’s feelings for Elizabeth are very
real and genuine, whereas Collins doesn’t feel for Lizzy at all - no one can disagree with me on that point! Darcy, instead of beginning his proposal by
stating his reasons for marriage (does that ring a bell?), he immediately tells Lizzy that he is in love
with her and then continues onto the advantages of the match and
making it clear that him marrying her is a big sacrifice on his part, what with her
small fortune and low connections and all! What a sacrifice on his part... Collins, on the other hand, launches straight into why he wants (and needs!) to
get married and why, in particular, he has picked such a wife from among the
Bennet daughters! (Luckily he doesn't quite go as far to mention how Jane was actually his first choice...)
The proposals are also very similar because, because of their
arrogance, they don’t particularly flatter her; her beauty or her intelligence or... her at all! Darcy says that he didn’t want to hide his struggles and flatter her
because “disguise is in every way my abhorrence” and Collins doesn’t mention
any particular reason why he has chosen Lizzy, just told her the general
reason for marriage and why he picked one from the Longbourne household - great reasons! Collins is quite rude to Lizzy, perhaps
unintentionally (perhaps not...), when he says “it is by no means certain that another offer of
marriage may ever be made you” and when he talks about needed a “useful wife”
who is “not brought up to highly”! Darcy
is also insulting towards her family and in regards to Jane as Bingley as he
rejoices in his success of splitting them up! (That was not the right road to go down ;) )
A difference though, is that Lizzy did have some idea of Collins
intention to marry her before he actually proposed whereas she had no idea with
Darcy as she believed that he disliked her as much as she did him! Also, Collins never says to Lizzy that he
loves her (as he doesn’t!) whereas Darcy does; “how much I admire and love
you.” Lizzy is not worried about
refusing Collins and doesn’t feel guilty when refusing him, whereas to start
with she is worried about the pain she would cause in refusing Darcy - until he
insults her and then that feeling of guilty is quickly removed! Also, Darcy wants Lizzy to marry him
because he does truly loves her so it is what HE wants, not Lady Catherine (Lady Catherine definitely doesn't want Darcy to marry Lizzy!), but one of Collins main
objectives is to please Lady Catherine, not himself, or even Lizzy!
Lizzy, to both proposals, rejects immediately. Collins, to start with, will not accept
her refusal because he believes “it is usual with young ladies to reject the
addresses of the man whom they secretly mean to accept, when he first applies
for their favour; and that sometimes the refusal is repeated a second or even a
third time.” (I didn't know that was the normal for young ladies?) Darcy accepts that she has
said no, (just about!), but wishes to know why. So
therefore, after her rejection, neither proposers leave straightaway after being
rejected. 
Another
similarity is that before both proposals, Lizzy dislikes both men. Her opinion of Collins doesn’t change after
the proposal (I wonder why?), whereas after Darcy's proposal it does and Darcy begins to improve
in her estimation as she finds out some of the reasons that she held against
him and therefore contributing to her choice of refusing him, turned out to be
false - that letter is so important!
I think that Austen makes you more sympathetic
towards Darcy, as he does love Lizzy and she refuses him in a pretty harsh way! Collins however, she makes you laugh at Lizzy's refusal! You don't feel sorry
for Collins at all because he isn’t in love with Lizzy and Austen has
portrayed Collins as a laughable and pompous character earlier in the novel, making
the reader more likely pleased (and entertained) than upset when he is rejected! 
Austen makes Collins seem equally as undesirable
and arrogant as she does Darcy but your opinion of Darcy will is likely
to change (again, it should!) after his proposal compared to Collins. Your opinion of
Collins after his proposal won't as he is such a comic character! Lizzy can do much better and will be better of without him! Not to mention the fact that he shortly after proposes to Charlotte
Lucas, proving he never felt for Lizzie in the slightest, which couldn't have been any more obvious anyway! 
In addition, Austen builds up the reader to be expecting both these
refusals. Collins is such a silly man
and you know Lizzy dislikes him, a lot, and they also know that Lizzy’s view
on marrying for love is very important to her and she is known to be very
strong willed so not likely to drop her opinion and sacrifice her chance of
happiness easily! Darcy has at this point in the novel been shown to be proud and disagreeable, and again, you know Lizzy
does not like him at all and as we see everything from Lizzy's point
of view, we will therefore dislike him as well, especially with regards to Jane and
Bingley and Wickham’s 'tragic' past (*rolls eyes!* but then we are likely to believe this story to be true as at this point
Lizzy believes it and likes Wickham, so we are likely to as well!) Therefore, you would be glad that
Lizzy doesn’t accept Collins or Darcy, but are more likely to be upset that she
doesn’t accept Darcy’s offer of marriage because they know it was genuine. But, I am sure most people (woman at least!) would understand (and
agree!) with Lizzy’s reason for rejecting him - every girl wants a romantic proposal, Darcy's second proposal springs to mind ;)
Despite his selfishness and pride Darcy really does love
Lizzy, whereas Collins definitely does not! But, he made the fatal error, just like Collins, of assuming that Lizzy would marry anyone if it offered her security,
money and comfort and was also very advantageous for not only her, but her
family as well. It proves that Lizzy does not agree with the ‘rule’ of marrying as quickly as possible to secure a
good future without consulting her own feelings in the matter, again making
Lizzy very different to how woman were expected to act and behave during the regency
period, and making her such a strong (and my favourite) heroine! 
Jane Austen's works are some of the most widely read of all English Literature. They have been translated into 35 different languages and still continue to grow in popularity. 
"Such I was, from eight to eight and twenty; and such I might still have been but for you, dearest, loveliest Elizabeth! What do I not owe you! You taught me a lesson, hard indeed at first, but most advantageous. By you, I was properly humbled. I came to you without a doubt of my reception. You shewed me how insufficient were all my pretencions to please a woman worthy of being pleased."
And lastly from Emma; 
And of course there are some great moments of humour between the characters. Here is just one example from Pride and Prejudice, and you are almost sorry for Mr Collins at this point; 
"There is a stubbornness about me that never can bear to be frightened at the will of others. My courage always rises at every attempt to intimidate me."
And lets not forget the 'baddies'...
So, there are a very few reasons why I love Jane Austen's amazing writing, and I'm sure why so many others adore her as well! (And I haven't even touched on the locations, the mocking of the social graces of the time, the irony or the wonderful way in which she can still, today, transport us into the wonderful regency world through her wonderful writing!) Why do you love Jane? 
